When people want to justify a behavior that deep down inside themselves they know they shouldn't do, they will redefine terms that cast their actions into a better light. I've noticed in recent years that people, young people especially, are making the definition of sex more specific so that what they are engaged in doesn't fall under condemnation. Most people have at least heard that sex before marriage is sinful, so they state that foreplay heavy petting is not really sex. Surveys now show that many teenagers are convinced that oral sex is not really sex, even though the word appears in the phrase.
Catholic Theology and Oral Pleasure | Catholic Answers
Is oral sex a sin in marriage? What about oral sex before marriage? Oral sex can be a beautiful and pleasurable way to bring more intimacy, pleasure, and connection within your marriage. Better communication leads to better sex. Ah, that question Of course, the ones asking these questions are Christians wondering what is permissible in the marriage bed. Sex is amazing.
You may not want to hear or deal with the fact the bible, has a lot of good things in it. But it was written in a dead language for over yrs. And during that time, the people in power liked having slaves, so when the bible was translated slavery was ok. But so was a husband can kill his wife if she just looked sexually at another man, or parents could kill their child if they disobey them. My point is, a lot of rules in most religions are man made.
Question: "What does the Bible say about anal sex? What is sodomy according to the Bible? In the account of Sodom and Gomorrah in Genesis 19, a large group of men sought to gang rape two angels who had taken the form of men. The reasonable presumption is that the men of Sodom wanted to have forcible anal sex with the angels.