You Shouldn't Have Sex With Him Until He Does This
He is an intelligent man and great company, and we share similar values. Before we had sex for the first time, he massaged, kissed and complimented me. We engaged in foreplay and I made sure he had an orgasm every time. We go to bed, he kisses and touches me here and there, and two minutes later, he puts on a condom and lubricant. The sex is getting better, but my frustration is increasing. Should I just make up an excuse to end things as I feel I have allowed this to go on for too long?
Life happens, which means dry spells happen, am I right? No biggie—unless that dry spell morphs into more of a, well, severe drought. Wondering why don't I want to have sex anymore? Factors like stress, time, and kids can seriously zap your sex drive. That said, you shouldn't just give up on your sex life forever.
I'm really hoping someone can give me some kind of input on a situation in my relationship that feel completely at a loss about. We've been together nearly three years I am 30, he is almost Compared to my previous relationships I've always found our sex life a little odd. With my previous boyfriends we always did it at least a few times a week, they would never turn me down, would pester me for sex when I didn't want to - and they always seemed happy to be doing it. I have a wonderful, close and loving relationship with my current boyfriend.