Don't refer to me as a "tranny. The term "tranny" makes me feel like a thing rather than a person. Porn companies are giving their audience a fantasy. Unfortunately, these fantasies are all too often produced and directed by cis men. Simply put: Don't let what you see in porn dictate how you communicate with a trans woman.
No, I Don't Have To Tell You I'm Trans Before Dating You
No, I'm a gay man. I'm not going to be sexually compatible with a ftm. Only men born men. I get that some people don't want to have sex with trans people because of their parts, but why would you refuse to date them? Why does every partner you date have to be a sexual one? It's my body, I decide what happens with it.
Dating us doesn't make you gay. Unless you're a guy, of course! But ladies, if you're attracted to men, fancying a trans guy doesn't suddenly change your sexuality. It means you're seeing them for the man that they are. It isn't the 'best of both worlds'.
That female would be in reality a guy no matter what they did to their body. I don't play with myself. I date with purpose. I would never do so knowingly.